It seems that 9 months is the magic number for me to get used to anything new. I went from being terrified by the idea of how much my life would change once I have a baby, to wondering how I ever lived without him. It took another 9 months to finally admit I couldn‟t do it all myself and hired a nanny. Then 9 months later, I let her go and joined the MOMS Club. And here we are, 9 months after joining, I've become the president of the Club.
I've always been a busy body. Having projects and coming up with new ones invigorates me. I really believed that not even a baby would slow me down. And when I was faced with the reality, and a bit of an identity crisis, I was devastated. The constant stress and sleep deprivation wore me down. Unfortunately that wasn't enough motivation for me to join the Club. I couldn't get over that I was no longer a "career woman". And saw “seeking support” as “being defeated.”
I spent many hours watching Oprah for inspiration when one show spoke to me. Someone said, you need to grieve for your old self before the baby because you'll never be that person again. Embrace the new you, because you are yourself, and so much more. This insight was the turning point. I realized my naive misconception held me back from being a part of such a wonderful organization. As I have learned that we all had to make adjustments in our lives for the benefit of our children. How selfless and admirable it is to be a stay-at-home mom. And for anyone who's been in the same place I was, I can confidently say that the Club has given me a new sense of purpose and belonging. It has renewed my energy and opened my mind. I am proud to be amongst such an extraordinary group of women. I am busier than ever doing the most rewarding and important job that I‟ve ever had.
I am honored to be in this position to be able to offer support to other moms in need. I hope to bring you and your children many fun and entertaining activities, as well as valuable information and assistance. I look forward to getting to know everyone. I appreciate having the opportunity to give back to a club that has helped me so much. And I am here to help with my arms and heart wide open.
Ann Dooley
President of MOMS Club
West Hollywood and Hollywood Chapter
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