Ann's projects -completed

I've been busier than ever with work not related to Oliver. I had gave myself a goal to have my first book published by my birthday. It didn't happen on time, but I have sent in the file and it should be up on Amazon.com for purchase early July. I can't believe it's really happening. I am excited and proud of myself for coming up with this project and following through with it. The title is now called "Quick Tips For First-Time Moms: A Simple and Practical Guide to Finding Balance". For the longest time I was only writing it for the first 3 months after giving birth. Those were really the toughest days I've ever had. Then I realized that a lot of the tips applied to pass that phase, and anyone with a baby can benefit from ways to get organized and bring more balance to their lives. So after many revisions and edits, I finally just had to go for it. This was a good experience working on the book and finding my own voice and style of writing. And I'm excited that I already other book ideas in mind. I found out a friend knows someone at a good publisher, maybe I can approach them with my book too and see where it goes.

Another project completed is the website redesign for the MOMS Club. I had volunteered a while back to make the site more of a resource that you can return to, then just an introduction of the Club. It's been great working with the moms in the group. One person programs the site, another helps to edit the content, another provides photography. It's truly a team effort. The design has been well received, and we're going to launch the site at the MOMS Club annual banquet, which I was in charge of planning...and where I'll be introduced as the new President of the Club!!!

So basically I had volunteered for a bunch of things to help out. It's all things I enjoy doing and it gave me a project to keep working on my design skills. When the position opened up because the person who was going to do it was moving away, I was so flattered that the executive board thought of me for the position. I was excited and knew I can do the job. So I accepted and started the process of learning the responsibilities of the job, as well as getting to know the members who I haven't met. I can't believe I have taken on a position that requires me to speak to a large group of people, but that was one of the reasons why I wanted the job. It's always been my fear, and what better way to get over it than to do it. It's much easier to practice in front of a group of people I already know...plus the babies will be a distraction if I ever mess up. I am loving being able to be helpful and connect with people. I think this job will really help me grow in so many ways. And I can show Oliver that his mommy conquered a fear and helped other people at the same time.

Going back to the banquet, I had designed the look of the event and made the party favors. This is another benefit of the President's position, that I get to do more event planning and build a little portfolio of cake decorating and event design.

This is a party favor bag I designed. It's an iron on to make these draw string bags custom-designed for our event. Inside we have 2 specialty-teas and some hand decorated cookies.

Another big project was 2 bathroom make-overs for my parents' house. They went on a trip to Asia for 2 months. And while they were gone I needed to stop by to check on the house. I decided they needs an update on their 2 bathrooms. So after a few trips to Target and Osh, I repainted both of them, and replaced everything from trash cans to towels. I really liked how they turned out. And they were happily surprised when they got home. My mom still says how much more relaxing it is to be in there that she doesn't want to leave!

I've also finished a few freelance projects from past clients. I was doing so much work that didn't make any money, I thought it was time to take on some paid jobs. I hope with Oliver taking good naps that I'll be able to work more, especially now that all the big projects are done.

Coming up next...

Members-Only Section for the MOMS Club website.

Do some marketing and promoting of the book

Planning Oliver's 2nd Birthday Party

Chris's Birthday celebration

and then...off to Hawaii for a much much much needed family vacation!!!

Baby Milestone - Twenty-Two and Three Months

Oliver continues to be the light of my day. He only gets more beautiful in every way, especially his loving gentle soul. He is pure joy and so much fun to be around. And continues to surprise me with his ability to learn new skills and words. He is also well mannered and extremely considerate. He remembers to use please and thank you. And likes to share his food and toys with others. He's never grabbed a toy out of another baby's hand, and also doesn't get upset when someone does that to him.

The past 2 months my parents have been away on vacation in Asia. Oliver missed his a-ma and ye-ye who normally visits him twice a week. He has learned the phrase that they've gone on an airplane to Taiwan, but once in a while he still looks out the window hoping to see my parents show up.

With a little more flexibility in our schedule, we've been able to have a few more outings. Oliver still loves to go to the zoo. And now we walk most of the way together which is a lot of fun. We also visited a friend who lives walking distance from the beach. Even though it was a cloudy day, Oliver still had a great time playing in the sand. We also went to Disneyland for the first time with his Grandma and Aunt Pat. He loved being in the hotel elevator with the big glass windows overlooking the fish and turtle pond. At the park, he enjoyed riding on the train, but a little scared of the other rides.

Grandad who normally visits us on Fridays alone, has surprised Oliver a few times with visits with Joan. Oliver loves playing with them, and Joan takes great photos of Oliver while playing. We've also gone out to Grandad's house a few times. Oliver loves to help do the dishes, water the plants, and sweep the floor. What a great house guest! Oliver really does help out a lot around the house. Now I can ask him to do something, walk away, and come back to see the toys all put away. And he knows when there's food crumbs on the floor, to get the broom and dust pan.

He is taking after me to be a good host when we have play dates at our house. He's very generous with sharing his toys and food. He is especially kind to his stuffed animal friends, who takes turns sleeping in his crib. His favorite toys now are his toy trucks with "boy", bus with "driver", Woody from Toy Story, and the latest a toy truck that looks like a tow truck in his favorite book "Cars, Trucks, and Things that Go". He loves trucks so much, he'll often run to the window when he hears the garbage truck passing by. And we're "lucky" to have many road constructions going on in the neighborhood to be introduced to construction trucks such as the back hoe and cherry picker. One day we just brought some water and snacks and sat in the middle of the sidewalk to watch all the construction work. We even took him to a "Touch-A-Truck" event where he was able to sit and honk the horn in every type of trucks imaginable. He even got to operate a backhoe, his favorite digger.

Our morning routine now is taking a walk as a family to a coffee shop, and once in a while we'll be joined my a MOMS Club friend and baby. Sometimes we'll sit on the porch before Dad leaves for work and watch trucks go by. Then we wave and shout out "I love you!" while Oliver waves his little hand. These days Oliver comfortably says 3 word sentences, and knows the alphabet. Every night before bed time we'll call Daddy at work and say good night. He also wishes us Happy Birthday with a big smile even not on our birthday, and says I miss you and knows what it means. His favorite Chinese phrase is "bu-shu-fu" which means "not comfortable." And at bed time, he often says "more play, no sleep." and "mommy, no leave. Stop!" which makes me very sad.

The sleep thing became something I needed to make changes to our routine because Oliver has become an expert at stalling. We played too much in his room and it was difficult for him to switch it off by bedtime. For a while we pretended his crib was a bus so he'd get inside, but then he just wanted to keep playing. So I came up with an idea to use the alarm on my phone and told him it meant it was time to get in the crib, and the second alarm means Mommy has to leave the room. It worked amazingly and he's been so good about getting into bed and not get upset about it. I do see the disappointment in his face, but I try to give him lots of kisses so he knows I'll be there when he wakes up.

Oliver still loves playing music. He's always love the drums, but now also enjoys the guitar and singing.

Oliver also had his first visit to the preschool he'll be going in September. He really loved it there with a huge sand box with rakes and trucks, little houses to play in, so much to do outdoors but all under the shade. I was so happy that he felt comfortable there. So much so that he didn't want to leave. I'm excited for him once he starts there 3 days a week.

In the coming months Oliver will have lots more first time experiences. He'll be going to a ball game, and getting on a plane to Kauai for a family vacation. It'll be so much fun! I can't wait!